Wednesday, December 16, 2009

Wednesday

Evy is tolerating her chemo very well so far. We have had fun and have been having some good one-on-one time to work on her physical and speech therapy. Evy lost some words with her surgery. She was already behind verbally, but the surgery set her back a bit more. A tumor the size of a mango will do that to you! I spent time teaching her the word "milk" so that she could ask instead of saying, "eh, eh, eh!" After a day or so, Evy points and says "mih!" So sweet. The smile. Oh, you know that smile! She was so proud and so was I.

Today one of her physical therapists was here and I asked if she expects a full recovery of her arm and leg. She said that she doesn't expect that Evy's fine motor skills in her hand will come back. I hear her words, but I don't really believe them. I know some may say that I am in denial, but when people tell me things like that I just think, "but you don't really know my family." Because I imagine Evelyn as a sixteen year old running around with a lacrosse stick or dancing in a musical with Bob Fosse jazz hands. So there.

Evy has been sleeping very well for the hospital. She naps on me about twice a day and then we snuggle up in our hospital bed together at night like two little snug bugs in a rug.

We're expecting to leave here on Friday. Send extra strong vibes for no infection so that we do not land back in the hospital for the holiday and have time to plan for our departure for Boston at the beginning of January.

8 comments:

  1. I love that you get to sleep together there. What a comfort for you both. I love the lacrosse and jazz hands!

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  2. We're sending lots of extra love and positivity this week so Evy can spend Christmas at home!!! And please - she is going to be the next generation of amazing elbow-wagging dance champions!!!

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  3. What Marcia said. Glad that you get to sleep with her there. Milk smile, how sweet :)

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  4. Yes, home for the holidays for Evy and mom!! I've had enough physical therapy to know that surprising things can happen and they're sure to happen for Evy. She and her mom are fighters; they'll never, ever give up. I like ABBA's song, Dancing Queen. Here she comes!! Our love to the love (bed) bugs. xxxxoooo

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  5. Don't listen to the PT, my dad had a stroke almost 6 years ago and they told him the same thing and I am here to tell you I have seen the PT's be proven wrong!!!! Evy will get it back just keep working at it :)
    LeNee'( Jamie and Jess's friend)

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  6. Yup, don't need to put your mind to anything but her strength and healing. Vibes for going home soon!

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  7. Knowing you, my money's on JAZZ HANDS!! LOL. I find it heartening that your posts are so upbeat and positive. Good for you--that attitude will take you and Evy far. *hugs*

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  8. You show such strength and courage in your posts. I think about you every single day and am always sending vibes, but this week they will be extra strong for a christmas at home. And as for the PT -- what do they know? Not you and Evy, that's for sure!
    -Gretchen

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